Saturday, April 25, 2009

The Cheek

So Lorelle's cheek still hasn't changed from after the surgery. The doctor said it could take this long but I'm just getting anxious to see her when it's gone. We go back May 29th for her follow up and we will know more then. She still has bruises and she is still getting new yellow ones like under her cheek and stuff so I think it's still healing. I was gonna post all the pictures for you to see the progress but there are like 11 and they all pretty much look the same so I thought I would post them on facebook. That may be easier to post them all and then I can add more alot easier. 

Anyway, the first picture was the day after her surgery and the last one is yesterday. Not much of a difference but she is still cute even if she does look just like her daddy!!!! jk



Thursday, April 16, 2009

Lorelle's Surgery

Wednesday was Lorelle's surgery. We left Tuesday night and went to a hotel so we could be at the hospital early. We did all the paper work and meetings with the anesteciologist (however you spell that [the drug guy]) and the radiologist performing the surgery when we got there and then she went in. The surgery took about 45 min and she did so good. 

First they put a mask on her for her to fall asleep then they put some plastic thing at the back of her throat to help her breathe. The doctor then proceeded with the surgery. He had to poke her about 7 times. The first pokes were to drain the cysts and he drained 8 of them. He drained a little over 12cc's of fluid from her cheek and 8cc's of that was from once cyst and the remaining cc's were from the other 7. They said that 30cc's is about an ounce so they took about half an ounce from her cheek which I guess is alot especially for a little baby. He then injected the agent that was supposed to burn the excess tissue and then force the cyst to close so that it doesn't refill. The agent that he used isn't what they recommend to use on little babies because when it's absorbed into their body it can discolor their teeth. So he injected it and left it there long enough for it to burn the tissue and then he took it out so her body didn't absorb it and her teeth won't change color. Then that was it. 

We talked to the doctor after the surgery and he said that it will take about a week or so for the swelling to go down and for us to notice a real difference. We go back in 6-8 weeks so that he can see how the cysts reacted and what, if anything, needs to be done again. The procedure is such a simple one, he said, that he can do it as many times as it needed but that he was really confident that the one should suffice. 

When she came out of the drugs she was not very happy. She cried for about half an hour and then fell asleep in my arms. She slept for 2 hours and then woke up and was her happy little self again. I fed her and changed her and then we were able to take her home the same day. After 9 hours waiting at the hospital, we went out for supper and then took the kids swimming. 

All went well and I'm so grateful for all those who helped physically, spiritually and any other way. The first picture is her before picture and then the second one is after her surgery when we got back to the hotel. You can't see a huge difference yet but if you click on them to make them larger, you can see that it is a little flatter and you can see her ear in the second pic where the first one you can't. It still sags though like a bulldog but the top part around her eye is smaller. I'm taking a picture everyday so I can document the progress and in about a week's time I will post another blog with all the pictures. 


Friday, April 10, 2009

The Signs of Spring


You know it's Spring when......


you take your kids outside to teach them to ride bikes


and you take pictures while they are learning

you have dirty knees and feet and you have to squint from the sun

The cute flip flops come out of hibernation

and your toes are painted
I love Spring!!! 



Monday, April 6, 2009

No Thumb Suckers Allowed!!!


Forget the Binky
I want my THUMB!!!



Whatcha gonna do???

Monday, March 23, 2009

Lorelle Update



This Friday, James and I had an appointment up at the children's hospital to have a second opinion on Lorelle's cheek. I had requested to see a plastic surgeon who specialized in children with face abnormalities. When we had gotten there, we found that he wanted to bring in a few more doctors as well. So we saw a pediatrician, the plastic surgeon and then a radiologist. What we learned is that Lorelle's cheek is actually a form of birthmark called Lymphatic Malformation. It is a cyst type of birthmark that is actually very common, more than you'd think. Babies are born with extra lymphnodes in their bodies and they don't know why and some babies collect fluid in them which is what Lorelle has. They never go away on their own, which is what we were told when she was born, but actually grow with your child. So if nothing is done, the cyst will always be in the same proportion to her face as it is now. So the bigger she gets, the bigger it gets. 

So there are 2 things they can do for her. One is a procedure called sclerotheropy which is they take a needle and drain the cysts and then fill them again with an agent that burns the inside of the cyst and then "glues" it shut so it doesn't refill. Then obviously the second option is surgery which would be also the last resort. It can be done and it's not hard, he said, just tedious since they would have to work around nerves and be careful but he's done it before and it's no problem. But the radiologist is able to do the procedure on her so that she doesn't have to have surgery. He said that it's just a day procedure and won't take very long but since she is so little, they will probably keep her 24 hours just in case. They will only do the big cysts since those are the ones you see. He said he'd only have to do it once probably and that we would see a huge difference in her after the first procedure. He will only have to poke her with the needle about 7-8 times and she should be done. They are leaving the little ones since they are so deep in her body, you can't even see them and they aren't harming anything. If they get bigger then all we do is take her in again and he does the procedure again. She might have to have a few of these procedures done throughout her life. He also said that he's seen and done this procedure before and that it is actually quite simple. So she has an appointment April 15th to get it done. 

I am so grateful that we got a second opinion. Can you imagine if I just took that stupid surgeon's word for it..."they might do something for her when she's 5". Whatever!!! It makes me so mad just thinking about it. That surgeon did nothing for us and the doctors at the children's hospital were so awesome and took their time to find the best thing to do for her. Never once did they say it wasn't possible. They knew exactly what she had before we had gotten there just by looking at her MRI and ultrasound and the letter from my doc and that stupid surgeon's report and they put the pieces in place to make sure that's exactly whats going on with her and do the best for her. And they didn't just sluff it off cuz it wasn't harming anything and were like "oh yeah, it's easy. We can do this, it won't take long and she'll be fine and look great" Every time I think about that surgeon in Lethbridge, I get a little annoyed...if you couldn't tell. I'm so excited for her and excited to see what she looks like after it's gone. She'll be a whole new baby!!!!

Thanks to Jana who watched Jared and Mady for me. We were in a huge pinch since the hospital called on Wednesday and the only appointment available was Friday morning. Jana was my last resort since she lives up in Rocky Mountain House (2 hours north of Calgary) and she has like 8 day home kids that day plus 2 of her own. But alas, I had to use her. So Jana drove down and met us in Calgary and we went to the Olive Garden for supper (yummy!!!) and she took Jared and Mady home while we stayed the night in Calgary and went to our appointment then after we drove up there to get our kids and decided to stay the weekend in the caios. Then we got snowed in on Sunday so we got to hang out another day and it was fun...really. I owe her big since her basement is flooded so she doesn't have one, had 10 kids at her house and was still willing to take my 2. What a great sister...but I would have done the same for her cuz that's what family is for, right?? Thanks J!!!!








Thursday, March 19, 2009

5 years

Today is James and my 5th anniversary. Crazy how time flies. We've had some really good times and some well...less than good times but it's been great.  Look how skinny and young we were. It's amazing what 5 years and 3 kids does to 2 people. Happy Anniversary Babe!





Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Ode to the Sistas!!!!




Just giving a shout out to my sistas!!! They are my best friends and we've had some good times. I wish that we all lived next door to each other and our kids could play and we could hang out everyday. I know our husbands would love it!! How fun would that be?? Maybe one day we will all live at least a few hours away from each other so that when there is need of a girls weekend...it won't involve airplanes!!